Here's the secret I learned at 30.
“Find your rhythm. You can’t have everything you want, but you can have everything that matters to you.”
Marissa Mayer | Advice From Google’s Marissa Mayer: “Find Your Rhythm”
Yup. That sums it up. You can’t have everything. But you can have the things that matter. You just have to choose. Oh, and the choosing can be torturous.